In these fast-paced and stressful times, more and more men are having a difficult time picking up, and attracting women. Unfortunately, many men weren’t born with those “magical” qualities, to be able to get women without too much fuss and effort. Although there are different ways and methods for attracting women, let’s first talk about one nice method. Here’s how to attract women, by not fearing about rejection.
The Paralyzing Fear of Rejection
Even if most men won’t admit it, a large number of guys have a paralyzing, paranoid feeling about rejection. For example, when a man sees a lovely woman, he usually starts to talk himself into approaching her. However, once he starts to make his first move, the guy starts doubting himself, and will probably think that the girl already has a boyfriend, or that she’s way out of your league. This phenomenon is actually one way of validating your fear of being rejected. To overcome your fears of rejection, don’t be afraid of being laughed at, or turned away by the woman who says “no”, and tells you that she already has a boyfriend.
Shore Up Your Confidence
Most women, when asked, will say that the best trait of a guy is exuding confidence. If you feel like you don’t exude enough confidence to make you stand up to rejection, condition your mind to think like you run the world, and that you’re the most desirable man on the planet. Firmly establish in your mind the notion that you can practically get what you want, whenever you want it. If you try approaching a woman, and you suddenly get those jitters in your mind, take a few seconds to relax, and reassure yourself that you’re going to be just fine. Make it a point to be confident always, especially if you want to perfect the art of getting women.
Women Love Men Who Are Challenging
Women definitely hate men who are too nice, and would rather date jerks, because they see these men as more of a challenge. Although you need not try being a jerk always, just bear in mind that you should know how to be a challenge. Don’t just throw nice compliments to women, since women often get those everyday. Try to change your approach, and challenge her instead. Try creating a small tinge of drama, or suspense in your approach, albeit do it in a respectful way.
It’s also important that you have good body language when approaching women. By having a good body language, you’ll immediately notify the woman that you’re either nervous or unconfident, and socially awkward. You need to impart to the lady that you’re perfectly comfortable with your environment or your surroundings. You can do this by keeping your shoulders and head back, and by putting your hands out of your pocket, and calmly at your side. Don’t slouch, with your head looking to the ground, and always keep a good posture when talking to women.